Overview of
the Fours
Author:
Thrysse
Fours are
identified with consolidation, security, stability, building
foundations for the future, resting, and regenerating. Just as
the Three are expansive and creative, the Fours represent
consolidation, contraction, and conservation of energy. They are
the natural counterbalancing force to the Threes, and a restful
stop before continuing on to the unstable energy of the Fives.
We can liken the
first four numbers to the seasons of the year. Aces are
springtime - the germination of the seed, the first shoots of the
plants, the thawing and beginning of a new cycle. Twos are summer
- putting down roots and sending up stems and leaves - the
potential of the plant beginning to be realized. Threes are
autumn - the fruiting, ripening, and harvest of the plant and
celebration of the harvest. And Fours are winter - resting,
conserving energy, established plants putting down deeper roots
during dormancy, preparing for the next cycle.
Here are some
real-life examples of fours:
Swords: Restful
contemplation after a painful experience which has expanded our
understanding of ourselves, others, or the world. Time is needed
to heal our mental wounds and to integrate what we have learned in
a positive manner. During this time, we try to fit what we have
experienced into a mental framework and make sense of it. This
could be a solitary vacation or retreat to try to sort out your
direction in life, rehabilitation after surgery, a mental illness
or drug addiction, or as simple as taking some time off after
completion of a particularly demanding or difficult project at
work.
Wands: In this
card there is celebration, but also a formalization of a business
or romantic relationship into a partnership that lays the
foundations for the future. Here we are making a final commitment
and agreeing to live by certain promises, rules, or ethical
standards freely given to one another, that will set some limits
on future activities but also provide a solid and stable
foundation for growth together with our chosen partner. A
marriage or formation of a business partnership are good examples.
Cups: Here we
begin to see that all is not love and perfection in our
relationships with others. We have gotten past the breathless
excitement, romance, and passion of our early relationships, and
reality and familiarity is setting in. This is a test of our
ability to see things as they really are, to establish a deeper
relationship with someone that is not based on transient
pleasures. Or else, we may discover that there is nothing really
solid there and we are bored. This could be likened to a mid-life
or mid-marriage crisis. If a couple gets through this stage
together, then their marriage nearly always comes out the better
or stronger for it. Or, they may do something they bitterly
regret later (5 of cups).
Disks: This card
represents consolidation of our finances or material possessions.
In a positive light, after the expansion and risk-taking of the
Threes, we pull back a bit and make sure we are providing for our
future. We may focus on building our assets carefully, rather
than investing in dot.coms. We establish bank accounts for our
kids' future college expenses and for retirement. We protect our
investments through insurance and careful money management, and
put a hold on any risky activities. We pay attention to our diet
and exercise, trying to hold on to our youth and good health.
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